Crafting New Year goals is easy. Creating the new habits and behaviors to make your dreams come true is hard. More than 21 days hard. If you really want to make your 2019 goals a reality, start with quitting a bunch of stuff that’s not working.
Wondering why you don’t have more influence, respect and credit that you deserve? You may be guilty of powerLESS behaviors.
Every day in business and in life, women do simple verbal and no-verbal behaviors that erode their personal power without realizing it.
Here are 5 big offenders:
What if you realized that, as a woman, you have the perfect setup to be very good at influencing others – for all the right reasons?
If you are already…
- Asking questions for understanding
- Listening more than talking
- Thinking about how you can help others
- Sharing useful resources
- Deciding to stay positive and upbeat
…then you are doing what it takes to be good at influencing others.
Daniel Pink, author of To Sell is Human, determined from research that on average we spend 40% or more of our time getting someone to say “Yes!” Want to get better at it?
Here are five keys to influencing others in the workplace or market place you can use right away.
Tis the season to be stressed – or is that jolly – sometimes it’s hard to tell during your holiday. This used to be the time of year of Santa, magic and joy. Now as an adult, anticipating Santa has been replaced with parties to look good for, a long list of gifts to buy, and holiday pageants. And don’t forget selecting, writing, and mailing cards. Then there’s interacting with in-laws, out-laws, and every family relationship in between.
Oh, yeah, there’s still your full-time business that doesn’t slow down just because it’s the holidays. In fact, for many it’s the time of year to finalize budgets, meet project deadlines, and make end of the year sale numbers.
Are you exhausted yet?
No matter all the external expectations this time of year, the person who can really make this holiday enjoyable is you!
With a few simple shifts in perspective and a few practical tips you can not only make this holiday positive and fun, you can make it bodacious!
As a woman in business a little testosterone can go a long way. Seriously.
First, ask yourself: Do I tend to take negative comments by co-workers or clients personally? Do I feel overwhelmed by my work load? So I find myself doubting my abilities on a new project or position?
If so, you’re far from alone. Me, too, until I started to notice that my male colleagues weren’t feeling the same. Watching their behavior I realized that a little testosterone can go a long way to negate these feelings.
Here are four ways a little testosterone can seriously make your day more productive and fulfilling:
Anything shifting in your career, your business or your life? Any new change you have initiated or are adjusting to right now? Right, got a pulse?!
As the world turns faster and faster, as events come at us like a bad movie marathon, and as we start down new paths in our lives, the ability to stay sane amidst the swirl isn’t just nice, it’s a critical, strategic skill.
Here are 10 tips to thrive on change that are practical, productive and fun!
#1 See change for what it is. Change is uncomfortable, so we avoid it. But, to have any chance of thriving on change, you have to accept that it’s happening. See it for what it is – and what it isn’t. Face it, get the facts, and understand what it really means.
#2 Get mad, cry and whine. Change is emotional. If you bottle up your feelings, they will only work against you. So allow yourself to get mad, cry and whine. But only for a short time and not at others. During a 20 minute shower is a good option. You’re wet anyway.
It’s the last quarter of 2018! I know, I can’t believe it either. How about your revenue goals for the year?
Want a simple, powerful way to create high-value, revenue rich conversations as you go into the holiday season? Send out thank you cards, but not in a same-o-lame-o way. Otherwise, the whole thing could back fire. Here’s what I mean.
First, a reminder from marketing 101: It’s Easier to Increase Revenue with Existing Clients than Find New Ones
As an entrepreneur, do you want a powerful brand and think it’s mainly about amazing images on your website, social, and print materials? Think again. One thing I definitely learned being part of a small, unknown computer called Quantum Computer Services transform itself into arguably the first company to bring the online experience to the masses – AOL – is that brand is way more than a a recognize logo.
Proof is in results. During my 10 year career there, Quantum Computer Services became the brand AOL, a $7 billon dollar company with 23 million members and a wide lead in the top spot.
When I jumped the Corporate America ship and became an entrepreneur, I took everything I learned about branding and applied it to my new business.
Here are five key lessons and questions about creating a powerful brand for your own business:
1. Every company has a brand. The question is, “Is it working for you?”
Much of the business advice from male business experts doesn’t fully cut it for women entrepreneurs. These experts haven’t quite figured out how their advice is different for women. Plus, they’ve left out some parts all together!
Don’t get me wrong. The male perspective has some merit, but, it’s not the whole picture.
Here are 7 critical things that’s missing in advice from male business experts that women entrepreneurs needs to know.
1. Most business guru’s miss how women experience life differently than men.
When it comes to upping your social media smarts, wouldn’t you love to talk with a millennial who grew up on it?
And since they are so familiar with communicating this way, how can you be smart about setting expectations with millennial and all employees regarding social media during work hours and beyond?
In this episode, I spoke with Lauren Portlock, Marketing Coordinator for EVB, who breaks the common stereotype of a slacker millennial. For the last 2 plus years she’s been the right hand gal for EVB’s Chief Marketing Officer Michelle Hastings Simon. In addition to offering her millennial perspective on the company’s social media strategy, she makes sure this podcast is up and that you know it’s available.
Click to listen and learn:
- Whether Millennial or Boomer, professional or business owner, how important is it to have a digital footprint?
- Are millennials so used to social media that they don’t think it applies to them?
- If you find a less than flattering image of yourself on social media or a website, how can you get rid of it?
- What should you do if a friend posts a photo you don’t want to become public?
- Is it okay to have a social media account where you can say whatever you want?
- Are there any topics or subjects you recommend to avoid on social media?
- As a business owner with employees, what do I need to consider for creating a social media policy?
Plus, get even more social media smart tips by downloading specific how-to PDFs provided by Lauren!